Bonobology News Updates

My friend, Tara, discovered that her husband was cheating on her in the worst way possible—the woman he was having an affair with filed a sexual assault charge against him. As we rallied to offer her support and comfort, the question haunting Tara the most was, “Does he regret cheating… Read more »

There is no easy way to decide whether you’re moving on too quickly after death of spouse or truly ready to start a new chapter in your life. After all, there are no fixed timelines on how soon you can start dating after loss of spouse. It all boils down… Read more »

There’s no clear-cut answer to the question, “How long should you date before getting engaged?” Each relationship is unique, and timing can vary greatly between couples. While some partners may feel ready to take the plunge after just a few months of dating, others might need years of growing together… Read more »

You’re trying to figure out how to get over your first love. Noble goal. But right now, everything reminds you of them. That coffee shop? Your “spot.” That song? Your song. Even a random stranger wearing their cologne? Emotional sabotage. You’ll know you’re still stuck when you find yourself rereading… Read more »

Love is often thought to be grand gestures, fireworks, and unending passion. However, the truth is, love can be subtle, quiet, and deeply rooted in emotional connection. Over time, you might start noticing things about your relationship that make you question whether you’re truly in love or just going through… Read more »

“My husband and I have been married for four years, and while everything else in our relationship is fine, the issue of intimacy has become a growing source of tension. The truth is, I have no sex drive and my husband is mad. It’s not that I don’t love him… Read more »

Relationships evolve over time, and with that evolution often come new challenges and opportunities. One such challenge arises when a partner expresses an interest in exploring an open marriage. This can be a confusing and emotional experience, especially if the idea is completely new to you. It can feel overwhelming,… Read more »

Ah, those early days of dating! You’ve met someone new, your life is suddenly abuzz with excitement. The texting, the talking, the dates, and all those warm fuzzy feelings. Makes for quite a heady rush, doesn’t it? But at the same time there is trepidation about messing it all up.… Read more »

Trust is the foundation of any meaningful relationship. It’s what transforms connections into lasting bonds. Trust takes time to build and can be easily shaken by misunderstandings or challenges, but the right words can work wonders in strengthening this foundation. Whether you’re starting a new relationship, navigating a long-distance connection,… Read more »

Relationships can be a rollercoaster of emotions, filled with moments of love, joy, and connection. But what happens when negative emotions creep in, and you find yourself thinking, “I hate my girlfriend”? This can be an unsettling realization, but it doesn’t necessarily mean the relationship is over. Loving and hating… Read more »